Ahhhhhh, prom. Went to two of them when I was in high school. One was great, one was full of the typical high school drama that exists in those days (and unfortunately crosses over in adulthood at times). I remember the dress shopping (both left until the very last minute), the organizing, the anticipation of seeing everyone dressed their best. As with most people, I look back and wish had done things a little differently. I wish I hadn’t cared so much about what others thought of me and my friends. I wish I had taken advantage of being young and carefree. I wouldn’t want to re-live my prom but I would take a “do-over” for sure. I wouldn’t change my dress decisions, they weren’t hideous at all. I wouldn’t have changed my hair, it was the best it was going to get. What I would love to change is the dynamic of our group of friends. Looking back, I realize I had a really great group of friends. Things got messy as they often do, and I wish we had let it all go and had one last perfect night. We all spent so many years together growing up and exploring our new found freedoms and personalities. Most of us are parents now and have matured (somewhat!) and thanks to social media, you get to see how these young men and women grew into these amazing adults with businesses of their own and mini versions of themselves running around. One of our friends committed suicide a few years ago. Although I hadn’t seen him in years, it still was very shocking and I think about him all the time. When something like that happens, it makes you even more grateful for the time you got to spend with them. He was a fun, loving, tortured young man who died too soon.
My wish for Jessica is that she cherishes her time in high school and stays in touch with the special people who have helped shape who she is today. I wish her the best of luck in college and will be cashing in on the massages she will have to practise 🙂 High school can the best of times, the worst of times, but more often than not, a little bit of both. And that’s okay. Because without the bad, you will never learn how life is really going to be 😉
-alyson